I hate to kick someone when they are down but you know what, I’m so sick of hearing about poor Sandra Bullock. I’m sorry but she brought all of this on herself.
When you get with a guy who’s a drinker, why is it that woman are so shocked he continues to drink? Why do women insist that they can change a man?
As far as Sandra Bullock goes, when she got with Jesse James he was married and his wife was pregnant. She was the “other woman” in Janine and Jesse James’ relationship. So now she’s somehow shocked that he cheated on her?
Why? He cheated on his last wife, why the heck would he not cheat on you?
STOP PLAYING THE VICTIM GIRLS!
Realize that a man is who he is when you are dating him. Marrying him isn’t somehow going to magically change him.
I have a friend crying her eyes out for the last 3 months non stop because her boyfriend cheated on her and left her. Well what she forgets is that when she met him he was married and she was the other woman. TAKE THE HINT. A man is what he is. You can’t change him girls!!
STOP LETTING YOURSELF BE THE VICTIM!
If a man cheated on his last wife or girlfriend he will cheat on you, PERIOD.
No if’s ands or butt’s about it. If a man beat his ex girlfriend or wife, he will beat you.
PERIOD.
There are never ever ever exceptions to the rules. Ever.
Jesse James was married when he met Sandra Bullock. His wife was pregnant so he was clearly still sleeping with his wife and no matter how you try and justify it, Sandra Bullock helped Jesse James cheat on his wife. He would eventually leave his 7 month pregnant wife to marry Sandra Bullock. And now as you all know, he would go on to have 4 or 5 mistresses, and what seems to be at least two separate cases of sexual harassment.
SANDRA BULLOCK AND ALL OTHER WOMAN FOR THAT MATTER NEED TO WAKE UP!! IF HE CHEATS WITH YOU HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU DUMB ASS!
Now stop annoying us all with your boo hoo bullshit and move on already. Consider this a very expensive life lesson and drop it already.
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You very right about realizing a man’s behavior. Frankly I thought she met Jesse after his daughter was couple of years old. Hmm … I didn’t know she knew him that long. Men lie a lot though and who knows what horse shit Jesse told Sandra, the woman has never been married before and she is 40, so whose to say how much experience she’s had dealing with men and all their bullshit.
She learned the hard way. I will say most of us find ourselves believing what others tells us without questioning it. It’s in our human nature to want to believe the best in others.. I had a friend who is lawyer he once told me “observe close and verify”. He was right.