December 5, 2025

11 thoughts on “Don’t Bite The Hand That Feeds You

  1. This chick really is a dumb ass. She’s lucky to even get DVD work. Clearly this chick is website quality only and she fucking refuses to do an extra 10 to 15 minutes of work because they won’t pay her more? Seriously? I think Ryan was right in pointing out that the bitch cost the company far more than 15 minutes by not learning her lines so she couldn’t do them the fav of fucking dancing for the cameras for 15 minutes to make it up to them? Dumb whore. Seriously.

  2. I have read about her before a few times on other sites saying very similar things about her.

  3. She actually got praise for the situation from the #1 agent in the biz that agrees what Vivid did was wrong:

    (From her blog: http://jaydenjaymesxxx.com/blog/?p=226)

    Yesterday, I was supposed to shoot for Vivid. My call time was 3:00pm and I was shooting a boy/girl/girl scene with Mick Blue and Vivid’s newest contract girl Lia. After reading through all of my shoot information and scanning the script, the wardrobe that I was told to bring didn’t really match up with the script, so I texted the director to see if he had anything specific in mind. He gave me some ideas, then said, “You also need to do a strip tease for mobile and you can’t wear thongs for that.” Exactly what went through my head: “Wait! I’m getting paid $300 less than my usually rate and now they want me to do more work for them?!?!?”

    Remember when I had a huge problem with The Erotic Networks and them wanting to shoot all kinds of content and not compensate me for it? Well, it’s just about the same deal here. With most of these big companies your day is pretty much this: Hair/Makeup, Pretty-Girl Stills, Dialogue, Hardcore/Softcore Stills, Hardcore Scene, Softcore Scene, the Popshot and then you go home. It’s the same with shooting for a company like Brazzers, minus the softcore. Companies will either have a script and do a bunch of dialogue, or they’ll shoot a tease (i.e. rub oil all over your tits and ass and tease the camera for a few minutes) and get right into the sex. So, not only was I supposed to do all this normal stuff for Vivid for less than my usual rate (which, I’ll admit, is still a little higher than most girls), but they now wanted me to shoot a 15 minute strip tease, too! Not only that, for a MOBILE APPLICATION… It wasn’t even part of the scene! It’s for a totally different thing!!! HELL NO!!!

    I got right on the phone with my agent and explained the situation. I guess when he called the production manager, he said he had no idea what I was talking about as far as the mobile app thing and the tease was for the beginning of the DVD. Ha! Yeah, right! It took a few phone calls, but I guess they finally admitted it was for a mobile application.

    I know it sounds silly, and most people would probably think, ‘why wouldn’t you just shut up and do it! You’re getting naked anyway, just suck it up and do the strip tease for 15 minutes and get over it!’. My problem was that Vivid was not only unable to pay me my full rate so they were already low-balling me, but now they were trying to squeeze in more content, not pay me for it, but make money off of it themselves. I understand that the state of the economy is bad and everyone is hurting, but I have to draw the line somewhere. I know that Vivid is fully capable of paying my full rate (it was only an additional $300!), so when they tried to pull that, I was pissed. All I wanted was an additional $100. I know that it’s just $100 and probably not worth the whole situation, but it’s the principle of it. Too many people are trying to get freebies from girls and, sadly, most girls, once on set, would be too afraid to say anything because (*sarcastic gasp*) IT’S VIVID, so they do it anyway.

    Well, Vivid ended up canceling my scene. The production manager first told my agent, ‘She doesn’t have to do it if she doesn’t want to’, but then turned around and just didn’t want me there. Oh, and then someone actually brought up my blog and didn’t want me to go and talk about them. OMG! I’m sorry, but I say this to everyone who gets mad over my blog… DON’T DO ANYTHING THAT’S GONNA GET YOU IN IT! Be straight up with me and don’t piss me off. I just told my agent last night: Those who get mad at my blog are getting mad because it’s true and now they’re exposed! Though shit!

    I’ve said this before, but I really wish other girls would learn to stand up for themselves and use their brains and only do what their agent has explained to them as far as their scene goes. ANYTHING outside the norm should not be done without greater compensation. Instead, girls are too fucking stupid and scared, then the bitch Jayden Jaymes comes to set and suddenly all hell breaks loose and my label as a fucking cunt grows… all because I know what’s right and what’s wrong!

    I don’t come on her and rant about companies because I want to piss people off and be completely blackballed from this business. I do it because it needs to be exposed to others within the industry so they can see what’s going on!

    That being said, back to the whole Derek thing…

    As much as Derek and I have had our issues in the past, it put a BIG smile on my face to receive the following email from him this morning, actually backing me up! For a man like Derek to side with me in a situation like this, I again feel like I’m doing something right. Here’s what he had to say:

    “Jayden

    Whatever differences we have between each other – please set them aside for a moment,

    Twice now – it has come to my attention that you have had issues on set where producers have asked you to shoot additional content for no compensation, and you have refused, and then made the issues public,

    The Erotic Networks and now Vivid,

    In both cases we at Direct Models learned of this – thanks to your whistle blowing and on both occasions we were not previously aware of it,

    In the first case – this has now resulted in our models being compensated fairly for the work that is being asked of them from Erotic Networks.

    In the second I don’t know what the outcome will be – since I am only told now, that Vivid has been asking models for several months to shoot mobile content, something they had never told us – (nor had any model). So this will be discussed in the next few days,

    I don’t know whether other models just don’t understand they should only do what they have been booked for, or lack the chutzpah to blow the whistle when they are coerced to do so.

    Whichever it is – you are right to do so – and I wanted to tell you so.

    So thanks for doing it because it benefits all models and agents to know when this is taking place,

    Regards,

    Derek”

    I know that Derek or someone from his office is going to read this and probably be a little hurt that I put everything on blast, but I felt a great need to do so. Derek and I do not get along, obviously. But, in such a situation, it felt so good to hear that I’m in the right from someone I have such issues with. And also, hopefully other girls read this and Derek’s email to me and it somehow triggers something in their little brains and they start standing up for themselves. That’s the whole point behind me putting companies on blast like that! IT’S NOT FAIR!!!

    On another note, I don’t think badly of Vivid (or the Erotic Networks, or any company that has tried to pull something like this). Everyone screws up. I just hope that it’s something that is not used against me, or even used against them. But, it is something that needs to be handled correctly and fixed! I had never shot for Vivid before and I was actually a little excited to go to set and prove to everyone that I’m not the big bitch that they’ve all heard about, but, as luck would have it, something happens and that strong side of me comes up and I have to handle the situation properly. Apparently the production managed already told my agent that he’d re-book me for a movie early next year and get me my full rate… I hope so… I think that having a good day on set for Vivid would mend the situation for both of us.

    (And a side note… She was modeling under the name Jayden JAYMES before Spears named her kid Jayden JAMES.)

  4. Oh really? Because according to the IAFD Jayden Jaymes started in the business in 2007 while Britney Spears’ son was born in 2006.

    Actually Wikipedia says she started her adult career in November of 2006, that puts the start of her career just months after the birth of Jayden James.

    But all of that aside, she even admits in her own blog that she has never had the opportunity to shoot with Vivid before and was excited yet she couldn’t bother to learn her fucking lines before showing up on the set?

    How much time did that bitch cost them for not bothering to learn her lines? I assure you way more than the 15 minutes they asked her to perform a dance.

  5. Ryan, according to your defintion, which current active girls do you consider “A list” ? You have Tera and Jenna there, everybody will agree with that but they aren’t active anymore. You raised the bar so high by having Sasha in the B list that I’m very curious to see who made your A list.

  6. Did she have permission to print Derek’s email? Did he write that email or an assistant? I find it hard to believe Derek is siding with her and didn’t know about the mobile content considering he and Steve Hirsch are great friends. Hirsch did help out Derek in a major way, sticking out his own neck in the process, after Derek was arrested almost three years ago.

  7. I spent many years working in this industry todays girls must think they are smart or something. First off your in a disposable industry your time in this industry if your lucky might be 1 day to 10 years. Most women last like 2 months maybe. Second are these girls so dumb to forget there is a recession, product not selling well, everyone is doing a bit extra and still struggling to make money.

    Next this girl is marginal at best. She is a web content girl that will get chucked in 18 months if she lasts that long because she is a complainer and will do anything for money.

  8. JJRawlings – As to A list girls.

    In all honesty Sasha Grey and maybe two others in the industry can claim this title in my honest opinion these days.

    If Jenna and Tera where still working obviously. Maybe Stormy for 60-70% of her work. Jesse Jane really is not all that great and in all honesty is losing her hold if she had any.

    Bree Olson isn’t really on this plain either.

    Some of the issue is too many girls these days are encouraged to do everything right off the bat. Second probably 1% of these girls actually do any research and formulate a game plan before they come into the industry. The you have the issue of looks. Look back at all the women that are considered A-list talent. Most of them could of been real models or very close. Second they had a PR machine behind them such as Jenna had back in the day act Wicked.

    The other real issue is that the cost to make a A-list star is just not there any more. With the web most of the girls smart enough to be an A-list girl choose to do their own website where they have 100% control and gain 100% of the income or a good portion of it.

    Look at women such as Naughty Allie, Sammy4u, Raven Riley, yes some of these are a bit older names or have retired but these women where making well over 100k a month. No porn star is making anywhere close to that for 4-6 scenes a month. Plus time bullshitting with the members.

    Just my 2 cents.

  9. It’s funny what you said about the girls thinking they are so fucking smart. I was watching sex lives on playboy last week and Morgan Dayne who Digital Playground was saying is so smart and wants to be an entrepreneur, yet she couldn’t read the word PERFECTIONIST. Seriously. She got the word PERFECTIONIST wrong.

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