Once upon a time, the discussion of anal sex was a touchy subject for some women, but times have changed. That being said, it should still be treated delicately. 

How does one bring up the proposal of butt stuff? If it’s with your longtime lady, it will be a breeze (I mean not always.), but what if it’s a relatively new relationship? Well, I hope this article can shed some light and turn your partner’s sarcastic frown upside down. 

I would suggest trying the direct approach and straight up asking her if it’s something she is interested in trying. Being polite and reassuring her that things will go according to her comfort level will go a long way. In the end, plenty of women actually end up loving it.

Most importantly, USE LOTS OF LUBE! As I woman, I can attest to the fact that it will not be pleasurable the first time if you jump in dry… LIKE AT ALL! Get a water-based lube of your choice and oil that baby up. The less uncomfortable it is for her, the more likely she will be to want to do this again.

Take it slow. There’s no need to rush things, and she’ll appreciate you for it later. Let her take charge of the pace and degree of penetration.

Finally, BE PATIENT. If she completely shuts you down, don’t push the subject. You can bring it up in the future, but never, I repeat, never be pushy. Sometimes a little time is all it takes for her to come around.

I hope this article has provided you with a few helpful tips. If not, oh well. I tried haha.