The Pros and Cons of Working as a Webcam Model

If you’re a lady, and on the hunt for a fun online job you can do from home, working as a webcam model is actually a great choice. You can do it on your own time, you can organize things just how you want them, and you’re your own boss.

But honestly, a lot of women aren’t exactly overly excited when they consider all the potential downsides of such working. Yes, the cam girl salary is pretty neat, but you have zero privacy when you’re working, and what if someone you know recognizes you?

The Pros and Cons of Working as a Webcam Model

So, if you’re on the verge and thinking about whether or not this is a good option, let’s take a look at some of the good, and not-so-good things about working as a webcam model.

You Can Really Make a Lot of Money

This is probably the main consideration when you’re looking into whether or not you should go for it – the financial aspect. And yes, it’s probably not the best paying job in the world, but think about it like this: you’re getting paid to relax and enjoy in the comfort of your own bed. Is there a better paying job that allows for that? Probably not.

And it’s important to mention that it’s not all about just how much money you make, but how difficult it is to make said money. By working as a webcam model, the answer to this is not difficult at all, but pretty much enjoyable, which is why it’s such a lucrative choice.

People May Recognize You

This is arguably the one big thing any girl considering such a line of work has – the chances of someone they know running into their stream and recognizing them.  Well, even though not ideal, that’s always a possibility, and you know that what goes on the internet once, may very well stay there forever. This isn’t ideal, especially if you’ve been considering working as a webcam model just until you get a better job. Some companies may be a bit more conservative with regards to hiring, and coming across your stream might mean you won’t get that job.

Yes, that’s a possibility that shouldn’t be disregarded, but there are plenty of ways around it. To begin with, most good cam sites will let you pick and choose your privacy settings until you’re absolutely positive that you’ve set everything right. You can even go as far as blocking your entire stream for certain geographical locations, so you can make sure nobody in your hometown can see your stream. There’s plenty of settings to play with, so not much to worry about.

You’re Basically Your Own Boss

Ask anyone who’s been working from home in a similar line of work, and they’ll tell you that being your own boss has quite the perks. But working as a webcam model takes things a step further – you’re in control of literally everything. It’s your schedule, it’s your setup, it’s all up to you. You have nobody telling you what you should be doing, how you should be doing it, and best of all, you don’t answer to anybody but yourself.

Of course, this does come with a bit of a downside, because some people find it hard to stay motivated when working from home and being their own boss. Yes, the financial aspect goes a long way when it comes to motivation. But for some, it might not be enough. You’ve probably felt the same with your regular job, waking up in the morning and not really feeling like going to work. The difference is, when you’re your own boss, you can choose just not to stream that day. You will be taking a financial hit, though.

The Pros and Cons of Working as a Webcam Model

People May Not Like You

Not everyone has the same taste, so when you’re working as a webcam model, you will probably come across people who say they don’t like you. And while some may take a hit in terms of confidence when they experience this, if you play your cards right, you can actually use this to your advantage and build up your followers.

All you have to do is remain confident, and make sure you’re feeling comfortable in your own skin. After a short while, you’ll notice that such negativity in the comments doesn’t really impact you, because you’re feeling good about yourself and you know there are people who enjoy what you’re doing.

Eventually, you will grow to love your job even more, which is more or less the point. If you were one of those women who considered this a part-time job until they get something better, you may find that you just like things too much and you don’t need any changes. And loving your job that much – isn’t that the point? 

 

How To Survive Sexual Frustrations  During Lockdown if you are Single

Unless you’ve been living in a cave the last few months, no lives have gone untouched by the current Coronavirus situation. Whether you’re alone or with family, it all comes with unique struggles. However, if you’re currently single, loneliness is one of the hardest things that we as human beings have to deal with, let alone in times of a pandemic! This post is for those of you who are single and want some tips on how to stay sane during these crazy times, from investing in your mental health to keeping it (virtually) real with VR porn.

Focus On Yourself

Keeping yourself busy is a great way to get out of your head if you’ve started feeling sorry for yourself that you’re home alone and don’t have a partner to share this difficult time with. And not only will hobbies keep you busy, but you may also discover new things you like and this can be a great conversation starter for when you do meet someone new.

Yes, you may be alone right now, but why not take this opportunity to do something that you can only do when you’re by yourself. We often make excuses like “I can’t exercise in the morning because I don’t want to wake up my partner” or “I don’t have time for hobbies and a relationship at the same time”. Now is the perfect time to work on yourself. Read, exercise, take an online course, sort out your finances, learn a new language, invest in your mental health and become the best version of yourself, so when you do meet someone new, you’ll be ready for them!

Take Your Masturbation To Another Level

Let’s not even try to pretend that we aren’t all sitting at home and masturbating our quarantine loneliness away. Admittedly, this is a great way to pass the time, especially if you’re single, but what if you could make that experience even better?

As we all know, porn has been around for decades, however, VR porn has only been around for a few years and is quickly gaining popularity in the adult sector. The great thing about it is that you can watch it from various perspectives. You can be the lead character who gets involved in the action from a POV (point of view) perspective or if you prefer the voyeuristic angle, you can just observe the scenes from the side. You can also use toys to heighten the experience and some are specifically designed to be used in a VR environment.

Unlike regular porn, here you can choose any scenario you want and act it out as if you were actually there and the realistic feel is a welcome change during this lockdown. This is also a place where you can’t be judged for your desires and you are free to experiment with absolutely anything and anyone, regardless of what kinky fetishes you may have!

Learn Some New Sexual Techniques

Getting experience through physical touch is, of course, the best way to learn new sexual techniques, but when you’re on a Coronavirus quarantine, you shouldn’t have to stop learning and experimenting just because you can’t touch anyone! However, with the strict 2-meter distance rules, let’s keep the learning virtual…for now.

There are lots of great online tantra courses you can do where you can learn anything from a pussy massage to how to get deeper intimacy and satisfaction from your relationships. This will also be a great way to start a conversation with someone new once quarantine is over, “Hey, I learned some new skills online but had no one to try them out with, how do you feel about a bit of experimentation?”

Up Your Dating Skills

Dating may be limited right now, but for some, it has been a great excuse to get creative with their romance. Have you seen that video of the guy who saw a girl dancing on the roof and sent her a drone with his phone number? That’s what we’re talking about!

Sure you could just use dating apps, but you could also go to the park (if your country allows it), find someone you like, and see if you can strike up a conversation. As long as you’re staying 2m away from each other, there’s no harm in getting to know someone new. And during times like these, there will be plenty of other people who are just as lonely and looking for some company.

Bad Bunny Star Jayla is coming to Melbourne! 

Bad Bunny Star Jayla is coming to Melbourne on October 8th, 2019

Perth’s number one adult entertainer and Bad Bunny owner Jayla is coming to Melbourne headlining shows across Melbourne’s three top Strip Clubs! Get ready to be mesmerized by Jayla’s exotic moves that ooze classy sexiness in three of the most highly-rated Melbourne strip clubs.

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Jayla is kicking start the excitement at Kittens, before heading for the Spearmint Rhino Gentleman’s Club. She’ll end the tour with a tantalizing performance the Goldfingers, which is one of the best strip clubs known its risque ambiance.

You’ll get to enjoy the seductive moves that befit Jayla’s growing reputation as the in-demand striptease dancers for any bucks parties. It’s been a long wait for Jayla’s fan, but she’s now heading to Melbourne for real!

We managed to catch up Jayla, and she could barely contain her excitement. “I’m looking forward to giving my fans a thrill they can’t forget”, claimed Melbourne Stripper Jayla.

Catch Jayla performing in these venues.

Oct 8th – 10th, 2019

Kittens
68 Cecil St, South Melbourne VIC 3205

Home – Kittens Stripclub Melbourne

Oct 15th- 17th, 2019

Spearmint Rhino Gentleman’s Club
14 King St, Melbourne VIC 3000

Spearmint Rhino Gentlemen’s Clubs

Oct 22th – 24th, 2019

Goldfingers
584 Lonsdale St, Melbourne VIC

https://goldfingers.com.au

If you’ve been following Jayla for a while, you wouldn’t want to miss her performances or the exclusive lapdance that follows. The lucky crowd will get to mingle with Jayla after the performance, and grab some selfies with the sexy performer. On top of that, you’ll get every opportunity to enjoy and resist the temptatious lapdance from none other than Jayla herself. It’s a rare opportunity to get up close and personal with the hot performer.

We can’t promise another such opportunity if you missed out on her coming shows. But you can follow Jayla at Twitter https://twitter.com/bad_bunny777

She’s constantly keeping her fans updated with teasing pics and videos as she blazes through Australia with her wild and sensual act.

Free up your October nights for Cindy’s exclusive performance in Melbourne’s Top 3 gentlemen’s club.

Schedule an exclusive appearance with Jayla here.

Get in touch with Jayla at Jayla@badbunny.com.au or call 0458 622 149.

 

Virtual Reality With Your Favorite Pornstar

When it comes to adult entertainment, Virtual Reality (or simply known as VR) has been taking over the market in the last 3 years.

Watching adult content in VR allows consumers to feel much more engaged when they are viewing this type of movies and it provides them with a feeling that they are interacting with their favorite pornstars rather than just watching a normal porn video on their browser.

Today, VR is one of the most searched content on the internet and a lot of people are purchasing VR headsets to have fun. Plenty of adult actresses have been shooting in VR because they know that the public have been doing the switch.

A VR headset is indeed required to view Virtual Reality porn and plenty of them are available to purchase online, from cheap headsets to very expensive ones. Low-cost headsets like the Google Cardboard, Homido and Zeiss have a retail price of below $100, they don’t have a great streaming quality, they are not that comfortable to wear and they tend to break down fast. On the other hand, top of the line headsets like the HTC Vive, PSVR and Oculus Rift are very expensive ($400+) and they are mostly designed for savvy video game players who play games all day long.

A great headset that has been produced simply to watch VR porn, is the IRIS VR Headset by PVRmall.com. This headset is made in the US, has a retail price of $199 and it’s been designed for adult content. The streaming quality is excellent, it has a superior optical system and it provides users with a great VR experience when it comes to porn. Consumers who are not into video games and who are looking for a great device to view VR porn movies should definitely look into this device.

In addition, users who own this headset would also gain free access and free VR movies through PVR.fun which is basically a collection of VR movies that gets updated weekly with new content and that allows people to save on monthly subscriptions from the major VR porn studios.

In conclusion, VR is expanding rapidly more and more. People who haven’t tried VR should start looking around and think that there is a better option to satisfy their needs. The IRIS has been satisfying a lot of consumers so if you are thinking of trying something new, then this is the way to go. You’ll have a lot of fun.

 

Was it really a suicide? Or did Kevin Moore kill porn star August Ames? Or was it all Jessica Drake’s fault?

There are people out there who don’t want this post out there. They’ve gone out of their way to try and stop what is said below from being seen by bribes, threats, and intimidation. It won’t work. I will keep posting this over and over on any site I can. The public deserves to know the truth. Even if it’s not the truth some people want you to believe.

What if I was to tell you that a book was released the very day the Markus Dupree story was tweeted out by Kevin Moore (via August Ames twitter), that suggested August Ames didn’t commit suicide – instead Kevin Moore killed her.

And to take it a step further, the rumor mill says that Kevin Moore tweeted what he did about Markus Dupree’s assault on August Ames to distract the world from the very book that talks about all of this called “The Last Days of August“, written by Ron Jonson – a man who clearly has no love for the Evil Angel director.

I know it sounds like a big conspiracy theory and it may very well be just that. But you have to admit, the timing of Kevin Moore’s tweet is suspicious. Some say he tweeted that to cover up what was going on with Stills by Alan. But I think if you take the time to actually listen to “The Last Days of August“, you’ll probably agree his tweet was a great way to try and distract the world from the release of the book. A book that trashes Kevin Moore’s reputation.

So did Kevin Moore really kill his wife? No. He did not.

While it leads you down that path several times, when you finally get to the end of the book the author confirms even he doesn’t buy that theory. But that isn’t the only bad thing the book has to say about Kevin Moore.

Axel Braun is the one in the book who really pushes the theory that August Ames was murdered

“It’s not like I’m a conspiracy theorist you know. She weighed, you know 114 pounds I think. It’s 50 miles per hour winds and you have to climb up a tree. I don’t know that you can climb on that tree, that huge trunk and just go up there and put that thing around your neck and calculate how long that thing is going to be so that when you fall down you aren’t hitting the floor. I mean it’s not an easy thing.” — Axel Braun

Strangely Axel Braun went out of his way to get a copy of the coroner’s report regarding the death of August Ames, which is where he gets most of his information to tell the author in regards to Kevin Moore and August Ames. Why? What I don’t get is, what reason would Axel Braun have to be requesting any official records of August Ames?

August Ames was dead. Why in the heck did Axel Braun need to get a copy of the coroner’s report for? He wasn’t friends with her and they weren’t family or in a relationship of any kind (well not in a good way).

Was it because he was hoping he could use information from the report to get out of his civil lawsuit with her? Or was it because he wanted to leak the documents to the public? Or was it because he wanted to use information in the document to spread rumors about August Ames and her husband, Kevin Moore?

While I suspect the first two reasons may have played a part but it was the third reason, the spreading of rumors based off of information from the report that turned out to be true. He used that information in the report to slander Kevin Moore and spread misleading information about the night of her death.

For the last year we here at Mike South have been hearing a rumor that Kevin Moore wasn’t home when August Ames killed herself. The rumor was that he was “holded up in a hotel with some whore”.

As far I as I know, nobody here was never able to track down the source of that rumor, and obviously we never published it because we didn’t know if it were true or not or who the source was that was saying it. Until now …

Axel Braun revealed to the author of the book that he drove to the coroner’s office and got a copy of the report and that int he report it revealed that when August Ames’ body was found the authorities spoke to Kevin who at the time was in his hotel room at the Sheraton in Agoura Hills, which was nearly 20 miles away from his home, the one that he shared with August.

Listen, I’m no fan of Kevin Moore, but even I have to admit what Axel Braun has said in this crossed the line. But that wasn’t the worst of it. That honor would go to Axel Braun’s friend, Jessica Drake. What kind of person trashes the marriage of a dead girl? I mean it’s not like August Ames can come back from the grave and defend her relationship. And really if anyone was going to trash August Ames or her relationship.

It’s been over a year now since August Ames has died and to this day Jessica Drake still doesn’t get what she did wrong. Let’s first make sure we are all on the same page as to what Jessica Drake did in the first place.

August Ames tweeted that a scene she was scheduled for with Erotica X was canceled because she didn’t want to be with the male performer thinking he was a crossover.

That tweet sparked a firestorm that would end in her death. August Ames didn’t cave. She stood by her beliefs.

Jessica Drake made two tweets. Although she didn’t call August Ames out by name, it was clear who her tweets were about and as a result Jessica Drake’s fans piled on and attacked August Ames relentlessly.

A year later Jessica Drake still hasn’t taken responsibility for what she did that day. She still hasn’t apologized. What she has done was played the victim, something she does quite well. In the interview with the author she cries crocodile tears.

When the author cut to Jessica Drake she cried and cried and wanted you to feel sorry for her. She talks about how devastated she was. Only she forgets to mention a few key points.

  • #1 On the day the world found out August Ames was dead, Jessica Drake was on a set with Dean Capture filming promos and intro segments for the XBIZ awards. She claims she was overwhelmed, and extremely distraught. However not distraught enough to continue working. She spent hours on that set, all glammed up and smiling for the cameras.
  • #2 Jessica Drake also forgot to mention that for the previous year she has been “extremely cruel” to August Ames, because August Ames was in a lawsuit with Axel Braun and that’s Jessica Drake’s friend.

Jessica Drake wants you to believe she did nothing wrong. That when she said what she did, it didn’t mention August Ames by name. But Jessica Drake isn’t stupid. She knew her fans would know exactly who she was talking about and go after August Ames and viciously attack her, just like they did.

Here is the video Jessica Drake filmed that day they found August Ames dead. You tell me. Just how distraught does she look?

Here she is on the red carpet, the night she hosted the xbiz awards. This photo was taken a few days before her tearful interview with the author Jon Ronson where she claims she’s been so distraught ever since she learned of August Ames death. You tell me. Just how torn up does Jessica Drake look? If you were to just listen to her story you would think maybe she really was all fucked up over it. But anyone who knows Jessica Drake knows better. And this picture shows the truth.

Look at that photo of Jessica Drake. This was taken just days before she was in her hotel room telling the author of the book The Last Days of August (while crying massive tears) that she can barely get out of bed she’s so traumatized. So seriously, look at that photo again. Tell me how distraught she looks. Now rewatch that video from above. That was taken on the very day August Ames died. Remind you Jessica Drake has said she found out while she was on that set and was beyond upset. I think the video and photo shows just how upset she really was about the death of August Ames. Something that to this day she has yet to apologize for her part in.

Next Jessica Drake does something even I didn’t expect. Instead of saying she was sorry, which by the way she still hasn’t done even to this day, she instead decides to talk about “weird things” in the Kevin Moore and August Ames relationship.

Yes, Jessica Drake trashed a dead person’s marriage, knowing August Ames was dead and couldn’t very well defend herself or her relationship with her husband.

When Jessica Drake cried “somebody has to help me“, I wanted to throw up. She’s such a disingenuous, heartless bitch.

Kevin Moore had this to say specifically about Jessica Drake and his problem with her.

“I think she has presented herself as a sort of social justice warrior spokesperson for the industry and I think it’s a fraud and I’ll tell you why … this is a woman who maybe performs 8 to 10 times a year. She has no idea what it’s like for the real working performers who have to do 10 or 15 scenes a month and the toll that takes on their body. And she is decreeing from her ivory tower.”

“If she hadn’t been bulled she’d be alive right now. It was 24 hours after it started. How can you not see a relationship there? She was bullied by social justice warriors.”

“Jessica Drake caused irreparable harm by using her followers and stature in an attempt to silence and bully a young impressionable woman.”

But being a tactless bitch isn’t a crime so let’s move on and talk a little more about Kevin Moore. Because trust me, he’s no innocent angel in this ordeal either.

In the book, August Ames’ brother details what happened to her by Markus Dupree. This was a situation known by those close to her for months before her death. It was something that August Ames had a hard time coping with and found it hard to go back to work after doing that scene with Markus Dupree.

So that means Kevin Moore has been fully aware of what Markus Dupree did to August Ames for more than a year and he only tweets it out now? Why? Why that specific day?

Is it because he wanted to distract the world from the scandal of his friend Stills by Alan? Or was it because he wanted to distract the world from the very book that was released on the very day he made those tweets, telling the world about what happened to August Ames on set that day with Markus Dupree?

The author of the book spent quite a bit of time talking with August Ames’ brother in Canada. Something that really stuck out is how much he did not trust nor like Kevin Moore. This was based on some of the things his sister would tell him about her husband.

The author also spoke with her real life best friend, Emma Hix who also didn’t have many complimentary things to say about Kevin Moore.

Emma Hix also drops another bombshell in the book. She said that August Ames asked Kevin Moore for a divorce and for several months prior to her death.

As far as the Markus Dupree incident, August Ames was no doubt traumatized over what happened to her with Markus Dupree. Understandably, considering he choked her with her panties and he slammed her head down on the table (according to the book).

She had a hard time working after that and those close to her think that was one of the many things she was dealing in her life when she killed herself.

At first glance you might think the book is a Kevin Moore hit piece. But when you look at the big picture, you see that almost every single person the author interviewed had the same thing to say about Kevin Moore. And none of them were good.

It implies their marriage wasn’t happy and when August Ames died, he claimed he was out looking for her all night. He wasn’t. It was revealed in the book that he was actually held up in a hotel room at the Sheraton hotel in Agoura Hills. This hotel mind you isn’t anywhere near their home. This information was confirmed on legal documents connected to August Ames death.

Kevin Moore repeatedly said he called August Ames over and over the night she left. He didn’t. He texted her three times. Not 1,000 like he said. THREE. Two times to ask her about dinner and the third time was to ask where she was, saying he was starting to get worried about her.

Listening to the book you can’t help but be shocked at what you hear. Kevin Moore doesn’t come out well. Anyone who thought Kevin Moore was a nice guy, or a devoted husband might think differently after listening to this book.

The book talks quite a bit about Kevin Moore’s past, before his marriage to August Ames. He was with Hunter Bryce. They had a very rocky relationship. In the book Kevin Moore says they broke up in 2009 and that she died in 2011. But I talked to a few people who knew her and every one of them said the same thing – Kevin Moore and Hunter Bryce may have broken up in 2009 but they got back together several times after that. They were together just a few months prior to her death. She died of a lethal combination of drugs and alcohol.

Next Kevin Moore married Shazia Sahari and then one day she just disappeared. Some say that she was committed to a mental institute. It was when the author finally found her living in Chicago, that we find out about several more of Kevin Moore’s lies.

The author tries to draw a connection to these girls and August Ames and then he does just that, through a producer at Evil Angel who wishes to remain anonymous.

She goes on to tell how she always felt Kevin Moore preyed on young, vulnerable women, who had “issues”. She then told a story about the time that they were shooting and there was this girl on set who was super drunk, in the bathroom throwing up and they were about to send her home (as you can’t be drunk on set). 2 days later, according to the producer, Kevin Moore is in a hot and heavy relationship with the girl.

The unnamed female producer said that’s always the way it is with Kevin Moore. He always finds girls who have issues.

This reminded me of the time I spoke with someone who has known Kevin Moore for about 10 years now. He said something as a joke but it really has a whole new meaning now that I’ve heard this book. The guy told me that Kevin Moore could be in the room with 100 hot girls and he would always find that one girl who had something wrong with her. When I asked what he meant he said Kevin always had a thing for girls who were nut jobs, drug addicts or that have daddy issues.

Is it true? Does Kevin Moore go out of his way to find girls with these problems to take advantage of?

If you were to believe the people interviewed in the book, yes. That’s exactly what Kevin Moore does. But not because he’s a captain save-a-ho, like you might think. Because he doesn’t try and save them. He just seems to like the crazy that goes on when you are in one of those kind of relationships

The book without a doubt makes him out to be a sexual predator who preys on those kind of girls who have issues. And even worse, the current rumors is, he’s still doing this, even after the death of August Ames.

After listening to this book for nearly 4 hours, the thing that stands out the most is that 2 of Kevin Moore’s relationships ended up with the girl dying, while another one ended up with the girl trying to kill herself. That it something to really think about. Even if you discount everything else said in the book by every person, you still are left with the fact that 2 of his past girlfriends are dead and 1 of them tried to kill herself while they were together.

 So just who killed August Ames?

She killed herself. The coroner’s report says at much. The authors of the book then takes their findings to their own expert who confirms as much. But the book also shows us just how fucked up people like Kevin Moore, Axel Braun, Jessica Drake and Jaxton Wheeler really are.

Changing Times for Russian Women

In the Western world, the role of women in society has changed drastically over the recent decades with women holding positions of power in business and politics as well as enjoying increased personal liberation. Whilst some societies remain in the dark ages — and others fully embrace women’s liberation, Russia falls somewhere in between as it tries to balance equality with traditional values.

Since the early 1990s, there has been a slow but steady improvement for the rights of women in Russia but, there’s still a long way to go. Although there have been significant improvements in terms of employment, social and personal rights, particularly after the introduction of Article 19 in the 1993 democratic elections, Russian women still face many obstacles on a daily basis.

Insufficient social services and financial constraints mean that, in order to live independently, Russian women are forced to juggle full-time employment with motherhood — a struggle which has seen a tragic decline and deterioration of the classic, traditional family.

Not only are Russian girls often forced to choose between a career and motherhood, but there is still a great deal of work to be done on their personal rights. Despite an anti-sexual harassment law being passed in 2014, a devastating move in 2017 sought to introduce a partial decriminalization of violence against women in the home. With domestic violence becoming an increasing problem in Russia, this new move angered many activists who saw this as very much a step in the wrong direction.

This may be part of the reason that more and more Russian singles are looking for a spouse from outside of Russia in a bid to achieve traditional marriage and children in a more enlightened environment. This seems like a very welcome end to the idea that looking for love online with a foreign partner was somehow shameful or immoral.

Another major change in Russia has come in the form of the adult movie industry. Once seen as seedy and dirty, it is slowly being recognized as a relevant and legitimate form of entertainment. In 2017, adult film actress Elena Berkova caused a stir when she announced her intention to become a presidential candidate — although she was not successful on that occasion, many feel that a point was made.

2018 saw one of the most watched World Cup events ever. Held in Russia, the event made a household name out of super-fan Natalya Nemchinova who, as it was subsequently revealed, is one of Russia’s most successful adult movie stars.

As Russia continues to evolve and adapt to changes that are more common for other countries, so do its female residents who continue to gain traction in many so-called ‘male-oriented’ areas such as science, politics, and industry. With these new and welcome changes, it’s only a matter of time before the Russian Government follows suit and introduces the support women need to pursue these activities whilst also staying faithful to their traditional values.

 

Who cares about the truth when we can just make it up?

Liar liar pants on fire. This is usually accustomed to people who are pathological liars. Pathological lying is not a health problem, but it can be a symptom for personality disorder. Sometimes lying can get us out of tough situations, but pathological liars end up lying with no clear intention.

In today’s world, it is hard to distinguish between what is true. Dishonesty is born from traumas either big or small. Some of this trauma includes losing a job, relationship or having financial issues. Liars start by lying to themselves. Sometimes even for us, it is better to live with long-term consequences of lies than telling the truth.

Even if you are playing online casino games, lying has no place, and we will help you know what you should take care of.

The Top Signs of a Liar

Compulsive liars are really good at what they say. Sometimes when you look into their eyes you will end up falling for their words. The following are six reasons why people lie when they don’t need to.

  1. The number one reason why people lie is that it matters to them. A typical liar always puts undeserved pressure on the issue at hand. Other people think it is unimportant while the liar will think it really does matter to them
  2. A compulsive liar obviously avoids telling the truth, because honesty does not conform to their narrative. The need to feel in control is essential to them, and telling the truth for them is a way of relinquishing that control.
  3. They do not want to lose the person they are lying to. A pathological liar will keep on telling you lies of what you want to hear. They fear to lose the people they love, the respect and value that they have been shown. Adding one lie after the other is a way for them to be accepted and feel loved.
  4. If you have ever come across a liar then it is hard to for you to trust them, right? A single lie always builds up to another lie to cover up the first lie, and that is why lies never end. When the truth is finally revealed it will be like a house of cards tumbling down.
  5. Memories about what we have said or experienced change with time. Compulsive liars cannot rely on their memories because they believe their lies at that particular moment. Factors such as stress and current situations can overwhelm the liar in creating a reality that does not exist.
  6. Liars have an instinct, to tell the truth, to satisfy a need. They want their lie to be the truth by saying it over and over again. Words have power right, for them telling lies constantly makes them believe that they are true.

The best way to avoid lies is to face the traumas that come our way. For us to be healed we need to clear our emotional closet. Believe in the truth and it will set you free.

 

MILFs and sugar daddies

When we think of dating, we often associate it with people in their twenties and thirties. Basically, we see it as a younger people’s activity because a lot of dating sites aim at pleasing that specific section of the population. However it takes all kinds of people and all sorts of ages to make the world go round; meaning that there are other people out there who are also looking for love and companionship. This is especially true when it comes to mature daters from the older generation, and we are now seeing the rapid growth of mature dating sites. Even though those sites are meant for older people to get together, what if you are younger and you still lust for a more ripe fruit?

Dating MILFs

There is a reason why the term MILF gained so much popularity since the early 200’s. Movies like American Pie showed us that an older woman (Stiffler’s mom) can not only look hot but can also possess a great appetite for all things naughty. Of course, this is just a movie, but it must have resonated in people’s heads as being true. TV shows like Desperate Housewives soon followed, blatantly banking on the whole ‘naughty mom at home’ gig.

To keep it short, older women are very popular with younger men. Dating mature ladies can really bring some great experiences to your life. Since they have more experience than their younger counterparts, they know best how to make a man happy in the bedroom department. This applies to technique but also feeling; with MILFs not only showing bedroom skills but also showing a greater understanding of the psychology of their partners. They know when you are feeling pleased and when you are not because they can read the signs better. This is why beyond MILF dating, some people are actually interested in dating women in the 60’s and up. Some of us have got mummy issues and it reflects who we date, sometimes allowing us to relive our youth. You can grab a granny on

This is why beyond MILF dating, some people are actually interested in dating women in the 60’s and up. Some of us have got mummy issues and it reflects who we date, sometimes allowing us to relive our youth. You can grab a granny on www.grannycontacts.com; it might sound a bit creepy to some for others it just hits the spot, and who are we to judge?

The sugar daddy

The other side of dating older people is when younger women like to date an older man, also known as the ‘sugar daddy’. Just like the MILF word (Mum I Like to Fuck), sugar daddy also implies some sort of parental connection. A lot of women out there have daddy issues, just like men have mummy issues; and this can sometimes lead the ladies to want to date an older man.

It can be explained with the need to feel protected and even wanting to get looked after. This is not typical for women by the way, as some men feel like that too. Some people like to get told off when they’ve done something bad, probably as a reaction to past childhood experience. Then there is the fact that older men have potentially more experience in bed so they can provide you with a better time than let’s say a younger and less experienced male. You can’t trump years of practice, and it feels great to have someone taking charge who actually know what they are doing.

Is it worth a try?

So you’ve got a bit of a thing for older women, or you wouldn’t mind the idea of a sugar daddy to tell you what to do? Well, maybe you should give it a go, after all, there is nothing fundamentally wrong with trying new things. This is especially true when you’ve been into a long phase of being bored by dating people your age. You don’t want to feel that there is nobody for you out there so you should expand your search. Try a MILF dating site, or a sugar daddy hook-up, and see for yourself whether the legend is true. Who knows you might just find the thing you have always been looking for…

 

 

Meet and fuck and nothing else?

So sex dating is now really popular, heck everybody is talking about it! Well, maybe not your parents or family, but anyone who is single knows that they can just get laid without much hassle if they are brave enough to venture around the right dating sites. But as fun of a concept, as it is, the reality is that some people just don’t have it in them to just ‘meet and fuck’; instead they need emotions and commitment to be part of the whole process. The question is: can you handle a sex meet without any of the usual emotions associated with relationships, and what does such naughty activity actually bring to your table?

Lust is strong

When we read books and watch movies, we often see that couples need love in their lives; it brings them emotional fulfillment that cannot be brought on by anything else. But the reality for other people can be completely different, where they don’t rely on love as much as they enjoy the feeling of lust. Lust is basically a very strong attraction you can feel towards someone when you just want to get naked and have sex with them. In fact, lust can be so strong that many of us have confused it with love. Whilst love and lust are two very different things, they rival each other in terms of intensity. Basically, if you can feel lust, then you can have sex without other feelings, it just depends on how honest you are with yourself and how in tune with your feelings you really are.

Meeting new partners is fun

Some people say that sex dating is just nasty and devoid of all emotions, but the truth couldn’t be more different. There is a huge human element that simply cannot be denied when you are meeting with all those new people, even if it’s just to have sex. Take a look online and find a meet and fuck site, and check it for yourself! You don’t simply ask for sex, instead, you contact people and you approach them as respectfully as you can. You chat, you exchange ideas, and even if it doesn’t lead to a date then you will still have spent some time socializing with new people. Of course, it’s not all flowers and roses; you do need to get to the point and not waste people’s time too much in idle chat, but this will always be the case with any type of dating; not just sex dating.

So is it for you?

You’ve got to sit down and think about it: are you lonely, do you want to have fun? Just because it is only sex doesn’t mean that it won’t bring any benefits to you. Sex is part of a well-balanced life, and you’re much better with it than without. It’s not about being a pervert or being someone who disrespects women and treats them like meat. In fact, the fact that there are many ladies sex dating shows that the activity isn’t just for men. You are not imposing yourself on anyone, they are here because they want to have fun; just the same way that you do. Sure love won’t be a huge part of the equation, but you will still be satisfying your lust. At least you will be quite clear about what urge you are trying to satisfy, so next time you get into a serious relationship you will actually be able to make the difference between being in love and simply feeling some naughty desires. The bottom line is: we can all learn something from sex meetups, and it can make us be better lovers in the future.

Getting into shape so you can start dating again

Before we even get started we would like to say this: in no way are we in favor of physical elitism. We get that love comes in all shapes and sizes. What you look like should be what love is all about, and even sex knows no physical limits.

This article is mainly there to make suggestions about getting yourself on track for your next date, and we are taking the physical approach because we believe that it can also help with psychology and increasing confidence. What we are saying it: you don’t need to be that ‘Hollywood fit’ nonsense that is getting pushed onto people and making a lot of us feel insecure. No, we are saying to embrace your body and who you are; we just want to make a few suggestion for activities that might help to clear your head before that next date.

Walking

This is possibly the simplest thing that a lot of people can do. We spend a lot of time stuck indoors staring at computers and sometimes we just get stuck in that reality. Sometimes you just need to switch all of it off, and what better way than walking out and leaving it all behind. Don’t get us wrong we all need those computers, especially when we’re dating online, might is be for love or even sex. But sometimes, you just need to go out and take some fresh air.

Swimming

If you enjoy water and you want to switch off, why not go for a swim early morning at your local pool. This is not a play on words, swimming is very immersive. When you out your head under water, you’re in another dimension altogether. This helps to forget your problems by bGettringing you into a drastically different universe altogether. You don’t need to be an Olympic swimmer, just spend some time enjoying the water is all… Also, it’s good for your heart too!

Running

For people who are a bit more obsessed about cardio, then running is a good choice. Not only that but the endorphins released when you running can give that very enjoyable ‘runner’s high’. Basically, your body is in pain so your endorphins are kicking in, bringing your mind and body into a very Zen place. If you’ve got problems and you’re anxious about dating, thinking about it during a run will bring some different perspectives to your attention. Again no need to run miles, just find somewhere you can run around for a bit.

Redirecting focus

Basically, you can choose any other sport you want, might it be cycling or table tennis. The idea is to redirect your negative focus into a more positive light so that you can feel more confident about dating. This will work both for traditional dating or adult dating, using sites like the sex chat site .The beneficial side-effects of sports will give you a healthier glow, it’s not necessarily about getting fit. Beyond this, you might actually find an activity which you really enjoy doing, bringing something else into your life that will contribute to your happiness and confidence. A happier and more confident person is always more dateable!